Having a baby changes everything. Preparing for a baby is the best thing to do. Take good care of yourself and get plenty of rest, good food and exercise as directed by your doctor. Stay as social as you can with your partner, friends, and family. These connections can help you emotionally prepare for the baby.
But, preparing physically and emotionally for a baby are just a small part of truly preparing. There are financial steps to take and there are things to do around the house to get it ready for your bundle of joy’s arrival.
Create A Checklist
You and your partner will be excited and happy about the baby but also a little stressed and anxious. This is why it helps to make a checklist of what you plan to do to manage daily life after the baby comes.
Of course, a newborn will not stick to any kind of a schedule, but to plan what you can do to navigate around these first few weeks is helpful. Decide what household chores your partner can do. Make a schedule for these chores and errands such as grocery shopping or doing laundry.
What will your work life be like? Will your employer let you go back to work on a part-time schedule or a flex-time schedule? Can your partner work from home? Will your Aunt Nelly be able to babysit on the weekends so you can get out and see a movie? Brainstorm with your partner and come up with the best plan you can for what you both will do after the baby arrives.
Stock Up on Essentials
Before you head to the hospital you need to buy the basics and stock up. Buy a hands-free breast milk pump or rent one from the hospital if you will be breastfeeding. This lets your partner use a bottle to feed the baby while you get to nap!
Buy plenty of newborn diapers. Plenty! Also get burp cloths, onesies, and diaper cream. You should pick out a new crib or bassinet. Used ones may not be up to the latest safety standards.
Prepare Financially
Start knocking out any debts you have. Create a budget and stick to it. Try to set aside three months worth of expense money. You want to have cash reserves on hand just in case. You can also start a college fund.
Plan for the Big Day
Find out all you can about the birth options available to you. Enroll in a class with your partner at least midway through your pregnancy so that you can complete this important step. Knowing that not every birth goes according to plan can help you prepare for anything and be better adjusted to welcoming your bundle of joy home. It can also reduce the chances of having conflicts with your partner.
When you discuss things work at preparing for a baby, it can make this new adventure one that you both can navigate. Don’t forget to plan or dream about all the special things you can both do with baby once baby arrives.